As I was browsing at Strand I got a phone call from Matt and gave him an update on the show. I was hungry so I went to a coffee shop for a grilled cheese sandwich. The people at the table next to me were shooting a scene for a film and I enjoyed watching them.
I went back to Strand after lunch and then meandered back to the theatre to pick up my bags and head to the subway. I had arranged to meet Matt's friend Lisa, who had agreed to house me for the weekend, at Radio City Music Hall where she works at 5:30. I got there slightly early, and waited around for about 20 min until she came out. We said hello (I had never seen her, only spoken on the phone the day before) and jumped on the subway to go to Astoria, Queens, where she lives.
Lisa is amazing. She and Matt started in the city about the same time 10ish years ago and assisted a lot of the same designers and worked on shows together. Since then she's become a project manager and designer; right now she's running the preproduction for a huge new show at Radio City Music Hall. But now she's realized that designing is not what she really loves to do so she's going back to school for massage therapy in the fall, while still working her day job. She's incredibly down to earth and friendly. I felt like I had known her for a long time, we clicked immediately and talked all the way back to Queens. I asked her about herself and answered her questions about me. She subscribes to the same philosophy that Matt does when it comes to breaking into theatre: just do it. Don't spend time freaking out about it or worrying that you're not good enough. Just decide what you want to do and go for it; make the phone calls, work for the people that you want to work for. It was inspiring to talk to someone who has made it, and to hear her think that I could make it too if I just tried.
Lisa lives in a beautiful house in Astoria; she's moving to Manhattan now and was still kind enough to host me in the midst of packing up everything she owns. She put me in a room with a very comfortable air mattress (I slept wonderfully all the nights I was there) and gave me keys so I could come and go as I pleased. Once we got home we were both pretty hungry so we decided to go out so she could show me the neighborhood and we could get food. Astoria is lovely, apparently very safe, with lots of great reasonably priced restaurants. We went to a new Italian place and ordered a pizza to go and then went down to the wine store and bought 2 bottles of wine. We discovered that we both tend to buy by the label (whichever wine has the coolest label in the price range we want is the one we buy), but we ended up with good wines in spite of that. Back at the house we sat at the table and ate and chatted and drank wine. Soon Lisa's best friend Sarah (roommate from college and roommate in the city for the first 5 years they were here) came over and ate and drank with us. She was very nice as well; as the evening progressed she and Lisa got into a fairly intense discussion about a guy that Sarah was considering dating that Lisa did not like. It was very clear that they knew each other very well and cared about each other a lot; kind of refreshing actually to see two friends who were willing to argue with each other because they cared so much about each other. The evening was lovely, though, we talked for about 3 hours and then Sarah went home and I showered and went to bed.
Saturday I woke up early and took the subway down to the theatre. There was no rehearsal so I was able to work the full day in the space which was great. I finished the charcoal city drop I had been working on for several days (it looks pretty cool if I do say it myself) and worked on the bar set piece, finishing it up and painting it. Alex and Michael (artistic director and executive producer/lead in the show) were there working too so we had fun talking. I headed back to Astoria around 6pm, where I showered and then went out with Lisa and Sarah. A friend of theirs was having a birthday party at a nearby bar and they invited me along, so I went. We first stopped at a new burger place (it was pretty good) where Lisa described what it was like to have been a vegan and then vegetarian and to recently have started eating meat again. Very interesting.
We walked over to the bar and found their group out in the garden. The friend who's birthday it was ended up being the assistant charge from Juilliard who I had interviewed with back in April. She remembered me and it was weird to see just how small a world theatre is. The group of us sat in the garden and drank (I got a Stella) and talked for a couple hours, then Lisa and Sarah and I left and headed home. Back at the house Lisa and I had a discussion of how it's really only worth it to do theatre if you really love it, and how if you really love it you'll make a way to work in it. Eventually we both went to bed.
Sunday I had decided to take the day off work. I was going to go to Redeemer Presbyterian Church (Tim Keller's church) but ended up sleeping in past their morning services. It was my first time sleeping in since I came to the city, so I was ok with it. Lisa was gone when I got up, she left a note saying that she would be in Manhattan all day with a friend and to call her if I needed anything. I left the house around 10am and went to a bagel shop for breakfast (garlic bagel with cream cheese and coffee....delicious). The day before, Alex, the artistic director at the theatre, informed me that he was concerned that I was working too much and not having enough fun in New York. He was going to a vintage motorcycle show in Brooklyn on Sunday and invited me to come along if I wanted to. I figured that it would be interesting and a new experience so I took the subway over there after breakfast to meet Alex and his friend Leone at the show. Subways run weirdly in the city on weekends, I discovered. A lot of the routes change due to maintenance work and several stations don't get service at all. I had to take a bus down from the subway to get to Brooklyn because the trains weren't running there. It was fairly straightforward; I got slightly turned around when I got off, but then figured it out. When I got to the show, which was a big blocked off street with tents and food and rows of people's motorcycle's from the '70s and '80s (kind of like a farmers' market for motorcycles), Alex wasn't there yet so I just wandered around and looked at all the bikes. They were really cool; I had never spent time looking at one up close before but I discovered that there are several different types and got to see how the machine has evolved from older models to what people ride today.
Alex and his friend arrived after about an hour and we wandered up and down the street chatting and looking at bikes, got beer (they were charging for the water, but the beer and the food were free), and generally had a good time. Alex took these photos and sent them to the production staff for the Drunkard to make them jealous.


I left at about 2pm, planning to go to the Met for the afternoon. This was not to be, however. I got to the subway stop I had planned to leave from only to discover that trains were not running there that day. So I was stuck in Brooklyn with little idea of where I was. I found a bus stop, though, and got on a bus that eventually took me over by where Eileen lives, an area I at least slightly knew. There I was able to get the subway back to Manhattan. However, it had taken like 2 hours longer than I planned for, so I ended up just canning the Met idea and heading back to Astoria instead. I was hoping to catch Lisa and see if she could give me comments on my portfolio and then go swing dancing with her and Sarah. When I got back though I got a call from her that she was going to a movie with her friend and probably wouldn't make it home at all that night. So instead I organized my notes for the show and did laundry (Lisa kindly let me use the machines at her house which was great because my clothes were quite dirty since I had to bring so few of them). I was tired and started feeling a bit lonely and depressed because I was by myself. So I went out to wander the neighborhood and find dinner and called Remus and talked for a couple hours. That helped a lot, it was good to hear from her; we hadn't talked since I left for the city. I bought dinner at the grocery store: an Aloe Vera Juice drink (quite good, sweet, Japanese, but has chunks of Aloe floating in it that you have to get used to) and a peach pie, which I ate half of and had the other half for lunch the next day. I went to bed around 11 or midnight and slept very well.
tbc